Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Grandma Grace's Graveside Service and Cliff Cook

Well today we went to the Willamette National Memorial Park in Portland Oregon for the buriel of Granny Grace. It was a nice service, however we had a double trial, as Cliff Cook passed away this AM from cancer at the hostpital in Vancouver. It was truly fast as the dignosis was given for him to last for a year or so. So his family was there for granny and then tomorrow they will need to plan his funeral. We had a really nice service and all of Cliff's family was there except for Michael Deb's son and Patrick Randy's son. Great grandchildren of granny. They had to work. A few of Grandma's neices and nephew were there. Roy came and he told a story of the geneolgy work that she did. We all went to Olive Garden and had lunch, Ed Jr treated and wouldn't accept any help from any of us though all offered. What a nice thing for Ed and Judy to do for a last tribute to Grandma. We all had some happy memories of her, and I think we will all remember the blessings that have come to us because of her. Ed Jr has brought this to our attention through his reading of the journals that she kept. We all are mentioned there so many times and the wonderful appreciation she had for all of her children, grandchildren, and the greats. What a legacy she has left us with her work for the ancestors and for all of her service to family and friends in the church. I am sure she was pleased with all that came to see her off and the ones that were there in spirit, if they were unable to come. She truly loved her family and I for one am glad to have been blessed to have had her in my life for so many years. I know that she is truly in the room in heaven where all of the people she blessed with the genelogy work she did. She had a dream once that she was escorted to a large room filled with people and was introduced to them as the one that had done the work for all of them. I know that her calling and election are sure because of this work. She crocheted hundreds of afagans for the vetreans along with slippers and did that until she went to the other side of the veil. There were finished and unfinshed lap robes there in her closet when we went to get some of the things she wanted us to have. She was always busy and working for someone else, she had lots of energy until the very end of her life. I have sometimes said negative things, about her and I truly am sorry that I have as her journals say that she truly was a repentant person. She deserves only to have the good remembered and I want to strive to always look at all of the postive thing she accomplished while she was here. I loved her as a daughter and I know she love me and all of mine. God bless us all to live to be as good as she thought us to be. The grange will take all of the lap robes and finish them so they can be donated to the vetreans. I love all of you and pray for us great and happy moments as granny wished. Love Grandma

5 comments:

Sharon/Mom/ Grandma said...

that was wonderful mom! I love you!

Danielle said...

I wish I could've been there this weekend! I'm so sorry for the losses you and Grandpa have had so close together! Grandma Grace was so sweet and wonderful and was definitely a great example to us all. I love you and Grandpa so much and miss you!

Lizzie said...

What a week for you guys. I love you both so much and your post was wonderful.

AMY AND MIKEY said...

Hey grandma, thanks for your comments. I am so sorry you've had to deal with all of this, and then Cliff. It was nice to be together as a family, and see the cooks. I thought the funeral was really nice and sweet. I really liked hearing all the stories that Eddie told. And I also thought Grandpa did a good job when he went up there. Well, you're in my prayers, let us know when we can come over for dinner. I love you.

Rebecca said...

Grandpa, I'm so sorry about your brother. Mom says that you guys were really close. That is a lot to experience in one year let alone one week! I love you so much.

Grandma, I loved your blog about Granny. It was beautiful.

I was so glad that I could come with Gracie. It was so great to be at the funeral. I loved the talks, and of course seeing everyone. We are all so blessed to have so much love in our family. I'm so grateful that I have you guys as examples of love, loyalty, and obedience to the commandments. I miss you often. I am so glad I built my marble slab to remind me of you Grandma, and that I have your dishes. I love my family and where I came from. I am also so grateful that we lived in Granny's ward those 3 years. It was so fun to have her over everyweek, she helped decorate my Christmas tree 2 years in a row. She was so kind to me and was always so proud. I will never forget it. I love you both. Bye.